I forgot to add something to my post today. It's a quote I came across the other day, completely by accident (or WAS IT?):
“Listen to the mustn'ts, child. Listen to the don'ts. Listen to the shouldn'ts, the impossibles, the won'ts. Listen to the never haves, then listen close to me... Anything can happen, child. Anything can be.” - Shel Silverstein
That one got me.